Living at home with parents is one of the main reasons why many men feel emasculated. It is difficult for men to admit that they need help with certain aspects of their upbringing, but when you ask them why, many of them will readily admit that it is an issue. A minority of male males may even live alone, but for whatever reason you do live by yourself, except for the very fact that you live alone, you will still often feel that you have failed as an adult man. If you want to overcome this feeling of emasculation, there are a few things that you can do.
One of the most important things that young adults should do is have sex with their parents. The younger that you are, the more your hormones are raging and the more aroused you are going to be, which means that you will be able to have intercourse much more easily than someone who is a little older and has not had that raging hormonal growth spurt. In addition, there is a chemical in your body called DHT that is responsible for causing baldness in men. Therefore, it is imperative that you make love to your parents as soon as possible because this will help reverse the effects of DHT on your scalp.
In addition to making love to your parents, young adults living by themselves also need to ask their parents to help out. Many young adults tend to slack off when it comes to trying to do chores around the house such as washing the car, doing homework, cutting the grass, and taking care of general cleaning. This is because these are the activities that you, as an adult, take care of, and you, as an adult, have the time and strength to accomplish it. So, while your parents are helping out, ask them to do some light housework as well just so you can have some personal time as well.
Another advantage to living by yourself is that young adults often think less of their parents in general if they live by themselves. Since kids generally look up to adults, it is OK for adults to think less of their parents because kids generally look up to them as their example of success. Also, young adults living on their own might feel less guilty about stealing from their parents or stealing their stuff, since you don’t live with your parents you aren’t stealing anything. However, this is not the case with adults living with their parents. When adults steal from their parents or take their stuff, it is viewed very negatively in a way that it would not be viewed as negatively if the adults lived with their parents.
Finally, young adults living by themselves need to take a close look at themselves. Often times when young adults live by themselves, they feel that they have achieved more than their parents have. In many cases, this is true, but it is important for young adults to remember that while they are the biggest thing in the world, their parents still have their lives on their own. It is important for them to understand that they are still living in the family structure and that they still owe their parents love, respect, and attention in order to continue to grow and succeed in their lives. It is OK for young adults to be self-sufficient, but it is important for them to realize that they are still responsible for making sure that their parents are still OK.
Hopefully this brief article has given you some food for thought as you consider the possibility of having your own home all on your own. It can be hard adjusting to being all by yourself, but there are plenty of reasons why you might want to do this. Young adults living by themselves in a home away from their parents can experience a variety of positive and negative results. For most young adults, having their own home and being able to live their own lives without worrying about where their next meal or sleep is coming from gives them a sense of independence that they may never have had before.